We came across a guy that is great so we hit it well straight away. It relocated quickly and now we’ve invested every together after our first date weekend. He mentioned which he would like to be exclusive although he’s got just been divorced about 7 months. We took straight down my dating profile because I do not start to see the point to be for a dating internet site if i will be maybe not searching. He continues to be active on 2 web sites. This bothers me and I also told him so it does not appear to be their actions state he wishes just as much as their terms do. We asked why he felt the necessity to keep on if he could be adamant he’s maybe perhaps not searching and just desires to see me personally. Their reaction is the fact that he’s simply afraid and he is offered by it convenience until he’s safer with this relationship. If you ask me, that isn’t giving us a shot that is full. That is maintaining your choices available. He claims it really is simply my insecurity and that i’m perhaps not trusting him. Personally I think unless you are keeping your options open like it has nothing to do with trust because there really isn’t a reason to be on dating sites.
We have actuallyn’t dated in three years considering that the final guy We dropped for met someone online while we had been in a relationship that is committed
I wound up really harm within the deal, therefore I understand i am touchy and insecure concerning the entire situation.